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A comprehensive, step-by-step safety planning resource used by professionals across Queensland to help survivors build personalised escape and protection plans.
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Understanding Domestic Violence
A Comprehensive Guide for Support Workers
Build deep understanding of domestic violence dynamics, trauma-informed practice, and the systemic barriers survivors face — essential reading for anyone in the support sector.
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Support Worker Guide
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Everything support workers need to navigate complex DV cases — from first contact protocols to safety planning and referral pathways.
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What to Expect When You Report Domestic Violence
Know your rights before you make the call — what police must do, how to get your QP9, complaint pathways, and your full rights checklist.
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24/7 confidential support for people impacted by domestic, family and sexual violence. Professional counselling and referrals.
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If you are reading this, you have already done something incredibly hard. You are here. You are looking for what comes next. That matters more than you know.
You don't have to fix everything today. You just have to do one thing. One hard thing. Just one.
Some days that hard thing will be making a phone call. Some days it will be opening a bank account. Some days it will just be getting up and deciding to stay safe. Every single one of those counts.
This is not a to-do list meant to overwhelm you. It is a roadmap — and you get to decide how fast you travel. Start here. Take it one day at a time. And when you're ready, everything else will be waiting.
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Why Your Incident Log Matters
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Why it's powerful
Documenting domestic violence is one of the most important steps you can take to protect yourself. Without records, matters can quickly become a dispute — your word against theirs. What is documented can be used. What is not is far harder to prove.
Clear, consistent records can support applications for protection orders, strengthen criminal complaints, and play a crucial role in family law proceedings. They also reveal patterns of coercive control — which rarely appears as a single incident, but as a course of conduct over time.
What to record in each entry
Date, time and location of the incident
A factual description of what happened — what was said and done
Any threats made, even if they seem minor
Whether children were present
The impact on you — fear, anxiety, disruption to daily life
Photos of injuries or property damage (attach directly to the entry)
Screenshots of messages, emails or voicemails
Police event numbers or report references
Notes from counsellors, doctors or support workers
Evidence of financial abuse — restricted access, unexplained debts
A note on memory
Trauma affects recall. Details blur and timelines become unclear. Records made close in time to an incident carry significant weight — they capture what happened while it is still fresh. Don't wait. Even entries that seem minor matter, as they often form part of a larger pattern.
"Evidence is what drives action — and documentation is how that evidence begins."